Saving your Relationship: Sex

In continuation of a promise made to you. and based on demand, i will continue this article which began here. saving your relationship may just be more easier than you thought. earlier, i have written about how to save your relationship with food. can sex save your relationship and how/

sex, is not limited to canal knowledge of the opposite sex but all the activities which encompasses sex, its causes and effect and how best it is managed. the following points are worthy of note if you must save your marriage by sex.

1. Being sexy is part of sex: if your husband is reluctant about touching you, it is simply because you do not appeal to his fantasy. Ask yourself, are you repelling him? If you think your answer is yes, then note the following

• size: being sexy is not synonymous with your size. whether you are fat or slim, it does not matter. what matters is how you feel about yourself. if you feel sexy in your jumnbo size, then indeed, you are sexy. If you don't feel sexy being slim, it is about you. in general, people are treated the way their mindset presents them to be treated.

• dress; nudity is not sexy, i total disagree. accentuating your curve may just not be sexy too. a dress is said to make you sexy if it fits perfectly on you, and you can gracefully wear the dress around your environment. As with all things, you should not stick to just an essemble. Variety in this case, is the spice of life.

• words: whereas, this still comes under communication, I have learnt from my Turkish wife that sweet words play an important role in relationships. most men feel they cannot afford to build up sweet words because they want to appear masculine. however, it is important that they note that women are moved by words as much as men are moved by sight. if the words are always right and soothing, your spouse will be always there and willing to stay and strike a conversation with you.

2. Fore play is an explorer: it is very easy to think that sexual intercourse is the penetration of the Virgina using the penis. unfortunately, that is the least sexully appealing thing about you because, nearly every male and female can perform that act.  foreplay also, is not limited to things you do within the circumference of sexual intercourse but more. this are:

• kiss: every couple should share a minimum of two kisses in a day. ideally, the number of kisses should be more than ten. a kiss in the morning when you wake up, a kiss before going to work, a kiss when you return from work, a kiss before you sleep  and the kisses that come before and after meal.

• holding hand, touches and hugs: so simple, yet so effective. holding hands is a way of assuring your spouse that you are always there; especially with the little squeeze. no matter who you are, a hug keeps you warm and calm. all tension are doused with a hug. so go ahead today and share a hug with your spouse and your enemy to keep a calm home. touches? Yes, a tap on the cheek, a pat on the back are little ways of showing support for our spouse. do not let little things deny you a happy relationship.